Stretched out thongs

So, I have decided to try and become a better person and to stop talking about people. This is going to be hard for me because frankly, I'm good at it. I know it is not a celebrated talent, however, it is a talent I have. I learned at an early age that words hurt worse than physical pain. I learned this from my abusive step father. I have speant my whole life bringing people down with my words. I do not think I am a bad person because I only did it to people who in my opinion deserved it. I am not one to start the fight but I am the one to finish it. I am usually satisfied to bring people to either tears or speechlessness ( not sure it that is a word). Anyways, I am going to try and stop. As my headline says I did say to my boyfriends ex, who would not stop messeging me that her genitalia was stretched out like a bad thong and probably looked like a piece of chewed up gum..see what I mean..not a ncie thing to say to someone.